Gratitude is a valuable life skill that can enrich the lives of all individuals, including children on the autism spectrum. Teaching children with autism about gratitude can help them develop a more positive outlook, build stronger relationships, and improve their overall well-being. However, because children on the autism spectrum often have unique learning needs, it’s important to use tailored strategies to teach them about gratitude. Here are a few ideas.

1. Visual Supports

Visual supports are powerful tools for children with autism, as they process information in a more concrete manner. Create visual schedules or charts that incorporate gratitude activities into their daily routines. For example, you can design a “gratitude journal” with pictures or symbols representing things they are thankful for. During the month of November, you could draw a tree on a large piece of paper and add a leaf of gratitude every day with a drawn picture of what you are thankful or writing down simply one word. This can be a simple way to encourage them to reflect on positive aspects of their lives. As they add items to their gratitude journal, reinforce the positive feelings associated with each entry.

2. Social Stories

Social stories are narratives that describe social situations and appropriate behavior. You can create social stories that revolve around gratitude. Tailor the stories to your child’s interests and communication style. For instance, you might develop a story about a character who learns to express gratitude when someone helps them. Reading and discussing these stories with your child can help them understand the concept of gratitude and its importance.

3. Visual Modeling

Children on the autism spectrum often benefit from visual modeling, where they observe someone demonstrating a behavior or skill. Create visual examples of gratitude by using pictures, drawings, or videos. Show them how to say “thank you” or how to express gratitude through simple gestures. Repeated exposure to these visuals can help them imitate and internalize these actions. Make sure you are expressing your appreciation with the people around you while your child is watching.

4. Use Concrete Reinforcers

For many children with autism, immediate reinforcement is key to learning new behaviors. Use concrete reinforcers to motivate your child to practice gratitude. This could be as simple as providing a favorite treat or activity when they express gratitude, whether by saying thank you or engaging in a small act of kindness. The more they associate gratitude with positive outcomes, the more likely they are to embrace it.

5. Practice Mindfulness and Reflection

Gratitude often goes hand in hand with mindfulness and reflection. Teach your child techniques for being present in the moment and focusing on positive aspects of their lives. Simple activities like mindful breathing, meditation, or keeping a gratitude jar can help them develop an appreciation for what they have. Encourage them to reflect at bedtime about their day and share what they are thankful for, fostering a sense of gratitude as part of their daily routine.

Teaching children about gratitude is not only possible but also incredibly beneficial. Gratitude helps improve their emotional well-being, enhance their social interactions, and promote a more positive outlook on life. The key is to tailor your approach to their specific learning needs, using visual supports, social stories, visual modeling, concrete reinforcers, and mindfulness and reflection techniques. Remember that patience and consistency are crucial in helping children with autism develop this valuable life skill. By embracing these strategies, you can help them grow into more thankful, empathetic, and content individuals.

What is the Intensive Feeding Therapy Program Like at MetroEHS?

As we dive into the details of the Intensive Feeding Therapy Program at MetroEHS, hear from the experts at MetroEHS and how they collaborate on the most wholistic approach to Intensive Feeding Therapy.

Jessica Hunt (Occupational Therapist/Feeding Specialist):
When it comes to treating children who have complex feeding difficulties and pediatric feeding issues, there's a multitude of things that are typically at the root of the problem. So what's very unique about the program that we have here is that we have involvement from both occupational therapy, speech and language therapy, physical therapy, a dietician, as well as psychology.

Rose Britt (Registered Dietitian):
So it's all five disciplines. Spending time together with the family, with the patient, with each other, all talking at one cohesive time, making a plan instead of grabbing pieces from all over the place and putting them together. I think it makes it a lot smoother for us and the families as well.

Kris Krajewski (Director PT, OT, and Speech Services/SLP):
Each of our disciplines really does have something to offer to this process, but when we work all together, we have the ability to help our kiddos make more progress more quickly.

Kayla Daniels (Physical Therapist):
At Metro, we really take a whole body approach. We don't just look at one aspect of the child. And a lot of people don't think of physical therapy as part of the feeding team, but in order to eat, you have to use all of these posture and muscles, you have to hold yourself up. You have to hold your head up to be able to swallow. So really focusing on all of those aspects of your body is really important to be able to make the progress.

Azari Haygood (Psychologist):
As a psychologist on staff for the Intensive Feeding Program, I offer mental health services to the families and to some of the clients. It's very stressful for a lot of these families. It's stressful for the clients that we see. And so, I offer just another support for them, where I'm helping them kind of overcome some of the stressors that they're experiencing around feeding.

Rose Britt (Registered Dietitian):
It's not just me telling you what to do. There's so much more going into that, and you get to really listen to the families and hear why it's not working and problem solve together.

Kayla Daniels (Physical Therapist):
The impact you can make, not only on the child's life, but on the family's life as a whole is huge.

Azari Haygood (Psychologist):
Seeing that improvement in their family's lives feels really great all around.

Jessica Hunt (Occupational Therapist/Feeding Specialist):
One in 23 children have a pediatric feeding issue. And so, to truly be able to address all of the aspects of that in one place, that's where we get to make a difference every single day.

Kris Krajewski (Director PT, OT, and Speech Services/SLP):
It's like when you have a jigsaw puzzle and you're missing one piece, you can still tell what the picture of the jigsaw puzzle is going to be, but when you have all of the pieces together, integrated into this treatment, the result is just something so much more beautiful.

Brittany: Hello! My name is Brittany, I am the bilingual Speech Pathologist at Metro EHS in Sterling Heights and Detroit.

Mallory: Hi! My name is Mallory, and I work in the Human Resources Department at the administrative office in Plymouth.

B: And we are so excited to announce that MetroEHS now offers speech therapy in Spanish and English!

M: That’s great! We can service Metro Detroit kids in their native language! But Brittany, can you tell me how to know if my child needs speech therapy?

B: Sure! If you have concerns about the language or articulation development of your child, it is possible that he/she might benefit from speech therapy. For example, if your child cannot pronounce certain sounds, does not say a lot of words or combine words to form sentences, or if you cannot understand him/her, we can do an evaluation to see if he/she qualifies for speech therapy.

M: That sounds great! What happens next?

B: After the evaluation, if therapy is necessary, we are able to initiate therapy in English, Spanish, or both languages to help your child communicate with family, friends and all of the people in the child’s life using their preferred language.

M: So cool! Are any other therapies offered?

B: Of course! We also offer therapy for feeding difficulties, stuttering, problems with social language secondary to autism, and the use of augmentative and alternative communication for children who are not able to talk using verbalizations. Here at MetroEHS we also offer occupational and behavior therapy at all of our centers. We have a phenomenal team of therapists that provide individualized services for your child. And Mallory, you can assist Spanish-speaking families get started, right?

M: Of course! We accept most insurances. I would be happy to answer any questions that families might have. Call our office to see if your child might benefit from speech therapy or other therapies in Spanish, English, or both languages. Our telephone number is 313-278-4601. We would love to talk to you!

Brittany: Hola! Me llamo Brittany y soy la terapeuta bilingue de habla en MetroEHS en Sterling Heights y Detroit.

Mallory: Hola! Me llamo Mallory y trabajo en el departamentro de recursos humanos en la oficina administrativa en Plymouth.

Brittany: Estamos emocionados de anunciar que MetroEHS ofrece la terapia de habla en ingles y espanol.

Mallory: Que excelente! Podemos proporcionar la terapia de habla a ninos en MetroDetroit en su idioma nativo. Brittany, me puedes explicar como saber si mi hijo necesita la terapia de habla.

Brittany: Por supuesto! Si tiene preocupaciones del desarrollo del lenguaje o de la articulacion de su hijo es posible que se beneficie de la terapia de habla. Por ejemplo,  si su hijo no puede pronunciar ciertos sonidos, no dice muchas palabras ni combina palabras para hacer oraciones, o si no le puede entender a su hijo, podemos hacer una evaluacion para ver si califica para la terapia de habla.

Mallory: Suena muy bien! Que pasara despues?

Brittany: Despues de la evaluacion, si las terapias son necesarias, podemos iniciar las terapias en ingles, espanol o ambos idimos para ayudar a hijo a comunicarse con la familia, los amigos y todas las personas en su vida usando su idioma preferido.

Mallory: Guau(wow)! Ofrecen otras terapias?

Brittany: Tambien ofrecemos terapias para dificultades con la alimentacion, el tartamudeo, problemas con el lenguje social secundario al autismo, y el uso de comunicacion aumentativa y alternativa para ninos que no puede hablar con verbalizaciones. En MetroEHS, ofrecemos la terapia ocupacional y la terapia de comportamiento (ABA). Tenemos un equipo fenomenal de terapeutas que proporcionan servicios individualizados para su hijo. Mallory, tu puedes ayudar a las familiar que hablar espanol en la oficina, verdad?

Mallory: Por supuesto! Aceptamos muchos seguros medicos. Yo estaria encantada de responder a cualquier pregunta que tenga. Llame nuesta oficina para ver si su hijo se podria beneficiar de la terapia de habla en espanol, ingles, o ambos idiomas. El numero de telefono de la oficina es 313-278-4601. Nos encantaria hablar con usted.